From the mouth of BABES…coming soon!

One Saturday afternoon I thought of this amazing idea to help my Queens out in the men department. Too often, we as women bring baggage from past relationships, voices of our friends, and bitterness from our broken hearts, to our new situations. Just as often we assume and make decisions for our men based on those assumptions. Very seldom do we really know what and how men feel. There’s many reasons why we miss out on that knowledge but all too often its because we don’t, I decided to host a series of interviews with some V.I.B’s (Very important babes) in my universe to speak on all types of topics dealing with women. All interviews are totally voluntary, confidential, anonymous, organic, and honest.

For the next 5 Mondays,  be prepared to be entertained and educated…



I love my vagina and so will you! PT.1

In April 2015, I was a come to Jesus with myself about my life. I was anticipating my 26 birthday the following month and as usual I was contemplating all the things I had not accomplished. Being married and having a child is always pretty high on my list so my chest starting to tighten, head started hurting, and my mind was racing 1,000,000 miles per hour and eventually I landed on the idea that I need to hurry up and find some fool to marry me and impregnate me like now! lol Reason being…my biological clock was on crack with no signs of rehab. My mother, paternal grandmother, paternal aunt and step mother had all had hysterectomies by they were 40 or 45. So that was just something I was looking forward too. Who wants to look forward to being sedated and robbed of the most important tool a woman has…her womb?!

Shortly after having this ordeal I started researching I decided my first step was to stop taking my birth control. I was very hesitant about this particular task not because I was afraid catching pregnancy (its in the water) but because I didn’t want to deal with my TT Flow. My relationship with her hasn’t been the best, she had abused me for years and years causing strenuous pain and fainting spells at least 35 days out the year for about 15 years.So, starting researching natural remedies for cramps AKA aunties ass whoopings and came across Yoni Steams. Yoni is an ancient Sanskrit meaning vagina and womb. The steams consists of herbs that aid in the healing,detoxing, and cleansing of the reproduction system. My understanding is that  extreme cramps are caused by a thick lining of the uterine walls due to incomplete shedding. The herbal steam helps to soften, loosen and breakdown the extra lining of the uterus so it doesn’t have to work so hard to shed the lining. It took my aunt 2 months so stop by for a visit and for once she didn’t completely out stay her welcome. She was definitely different though, my cycles went from being 4-5 days with excruciating pain to 3-4 weeks with no pain and a lot heavier. WTF!!! In typical Jena’ fashion I took my concerns to google, and found nothing. I decided to give my body sometime to regulate and fix all the damage caused by years of birth control. I’m very proud to say after 9 months of no birth control and regular yoni steams my cycle is back down to 4-5 days and I am pain free. YAY!!! In the course of those 9 months I also switched to organic feminine hygiene products because of article posted on IG about weed killer being used on the cotton field that are used for our tampons. Like really??? REALLY…weed killer??? They used it to make it easier for harvesting the cotton and shorten processing time. Cray right!

Benefits of Yoni Steams

  • Endometriosis
  • Fibroids, Ovarian Cysts, PCOS
  • Dark blood at the beginning or end of the menstrual cycle
  • Post partum and post miscarriage or post DNC
  • Menstrual Complaints & Irregular Cycles
  • Pelvic Muscle Tension, Pelvic Pain
  • Uterine Prolapse
  • Dysmenorrhea, Amenorrhea
  • Hemorrhoids, Constipation
  • Fertility, Infertility, Conception preparation

In the midst of this past year of loving on my womb, I’ve also started using Yoni eggs to kegel. The eggs are made from different healing stones which all specific jobs to do and its used to strengthen the vaginal walls. I currently own 4 and use them a few times a week while lounging and sleeping. After using my egg 3 times for just a few hours, I could feel the benefits, particularly increase natural lubrication and intense orgasms. Obviously, the more intense orgasms are my favorite part, lmao! One interesting change I didn’t expect was I stopped squirting..TMI? sorry but I did ! So yea… I have to figure that one out, I wasn’t prepared to loose that magic trick.

Benefits of Yoni Eggs

  • Increasing perception of your yoni, control over the vaginal muscles,
  • Awakening your creative energy, passion and libido,
  • Becoming A LOT more orgasmic,
  • Gaining control of the perineum and all groups of pelvic floor muscles,
  • Giving a lot of pleasure to your man and helping him with ejaculation control,
  • Harmonizing your emotions and healing your relationship to intimacy and sexuality,
  • Reducing PMS, menstrual cramps, breast discomfort,
  • Reducing menopausal symptoms, by increasing vaginal lubrication and balancing estrogen levels,
  • Overcoming traumatic experiences of sexual abuse.

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I will pause here and let y’all do some researching of your own before I share more. I want you to be well informed and not just hanging on to my every word.Look forward to more details in part 2!

Disclaimer: I am not a medical doctor and I am not authorized to give medical advice. Please consult your doctor…and they will just prescribe you a medication to fix your problem.

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